I personally know someone who’s Narc ex did this to them (referring to my previous post: False Accusations). A journal recently came into my possession that contains all the horrid details of a decade of abuse written by a victim. To this day as their Narcissist still claims they were the abuse victim, I think back to an entry about a 12 hour tirade by their abuser and the poor victim being hit with hangars. Makes you physically ill to your stomach when you finally learn of the evil that happens to a victim BEHIND CLOSED DOORS.
Would this narcissist’s world crash down with just a few pages of that journal shared publicly? Can you say utter destruction? So yes, mostly likely in the worst way. Career, acquaintances, relationships and family..... Poof! Ahhh, yes! And all the while, doing nothing illegal. You know.... like they do. False accusations that land you in jail, exercising their freedom of speech to smear your character online publicly, and cyber stalking.... to avoid stalking charges. They do everything they can, as long as they don't cross that line that will land them in jail or legal proceedings. We all know they avoid being cornered and prefer to avoid having to come up with non existent "proof" of their being harassed and stalked by the real victim. So when people say they don't know what they're doing.... yes they do. And they continue to do it, victim after victim.
They. Don't. Care!
Ahhhh......So much strength and power over ones life in my little hands....all contained in this leather bound journal and it's now mine found among other things in a bank safety deposit box left to me. Having the power over a Narcissists life in my hands is quite intoxicating. I get it now. And after what Ive been through the last 4 years.... I can't say that I won't take advantage of that power.
That's the difference between Narcissists and us Normal's. A Narc will use any and all info about you to ruin your life and not bat a lash. Humans will just let it go, not engage. Us humans have a conscience, feel guilt, remorse for the things we do, and consider the consequences of our actions. But in some cases we can be pushed over the line and have the capability and knowledge to give a Narc a taste of their own medicine! They say never engage with a Narcissist, that there will be hell to pay because, well, they're crazy. But when you have nothing to lose and everything to gain and can successfully knock down a Narc a million pegs.... why not?
Instead, the best revenge is to block them, ignore them, forget they ever existed. Narcissists are vile, envious, miserable creatures that can never be happy and their sole purpose in life is to project that misery onto others.
So LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE!
They. Hate. That.
