Co-parenting with a narcissist

 It is important to focus on the well-being of the child when dealing with a narcissistic co-parent for several reasons:

1. Protecting the child's emotional well-being: Narcissistic individuals often prioritize their own needs and desires over others, including their children. By focusing on the child's well-being, you can provide a stable and nurturing environment that counteracts any potential emotional harm caused by the narcissistic co-parent.

2. Promoting healthy development: Children thrive in an environment where their physical, emotional, and psychological needs are met. By prioritizing the child's well-being, you can ensure that they have the necessary support and resources to grow and develop in a healthy manner.

3. Mitigating the impact of manipulation: Narcissists may use the child as a tool for manipulation, seeking to control and exert power over the other parent. By prioritizing the child's well-being, you can minimize the impact of these manipulative tactics and shield the child from any unnecessary emotional distress.

4. Modeling healthy behavior: By focusing on the child's well-being, you can role model healthy and positive behavior, teaching them important life skills such as empathy, resilience, and self-care. This can help counteract any negative influences from the narcissistic co-parent and empower the child to navigate challenging situations in a healthy way.

Remember, seeking support from trusted sources such as therapists, support groups, or legal professionals can also provide valuable guidance and assistance in navigating co-parenting with a narcissistic individual.