How to get a Narc off your back.....

The harassment, the cyberstalking, the hacking into personal accounts....then they play the victim to anyone that listens.  It gets old, you joke about it, but sometimes it gets so out of control.  For us, with a little help from those closest to us, we had to do what we had to do to feed misinformation to our NarcSociopath in order for It to forever leave us alone.  Sometimes with a little creativity and having a lot of trusted friends that will do absolutely anything to help and keep it all a secret, is all it takes to get them off your back for good.  

Informative Video

Personally, this explains sooo much! 

Update

 During this time that we are under stay at home orders, Ive been able to complete some projects that I've put off and now have a lot more time to focus on this blog and the Facebook page associated with it.  

Ive jotted down notes in my planner here and there, now  it's just a matter of making sense of those notes and posting them online.  

My goal is to post every Sunday, so we'll see how that goes.   

On a side note...Thanks Narc Stalker, for every time you visit, Im reminded that I need to update more often.  :-)


UPDATE:  

Well that didn't work out.  Lol!  I ended up busier that I thought I would be during this time.  Going to try this again.....

Are you a Narcissist?

What I see a lot of in forums are victims questioning themselves on if they are the Narcissist or not.
First of all, if you have to ask yourself that question .... You're not.   The Narcissist in your relationship has played with your head for so long that they have you thinking that you're the crazy Narcissistic one.

Narcissists:
Lie
Manipulate
Are verbal abusive
Think they are more attractive than others when it is obvious they aren't
Are vindictive
Think they know it all
Put others down
Think everything is about them
Believe rules do not apply to them
Are not sympathetic to others
Are extremely envious of others
Stalk a targets social media/blogs


Monitor a targets finances
They cheat
They have to be in control of everything
Feel good when they concoct stories of being abused and people feel sorry for them
Need attention
Hack into the emails or iCloud account of a target or others
Feel the need to contact an employer to cause problems for a target
Access the financial information or personal accounts of a target
Monitor a targets credit information
Accuse their target of needing mental help
Feel they need to trash their target to anyone that will listen and on social media/blogs
Have to wreck havoc in a targets life
Accuse the target of stalking or being a Narcissist
Accuse their target of doing things to them when it is the Narcissist that is actually doing it
Falsely accuse a target of abuse and will have them arrested. This is another way of damaging a targets reputation.

The list goes on and on!

The behaviors above are just the tip of the iceberg of what a Narcissist does.  They also don't realize that they ALL share the same behaviors.  It's like they all learn from the same book.  One thing is certain, once you've had to deal with one, you can practically see them coming from a mile away.